Dang buddy.. Sounds like you have your hands full on that team! I had some issues running my old team.. my biggest mistake was trying to better the players and not the team.. Drop the ones who arent serious!! I dont care if your down to 3 dude bro! As long as them 3 dudes are dependable,trustworthy, and care about safety.. the other WILL bring your team down in time.. I started "62nd Echo Unit" back in "2000" with me,my 2 brothers and their best friend.. My one brother refused to agree on camo, wouldnt waer ANY eye protection, refused to play anyplace except our home field.. By the time "2006" we had 20+ bad ass members! Then me and my brother got into a fist fight over a stupid green bell pepper and he dropped out,then his best buddy left,then his other cousin left and so forth..lol.. Its best to either set em straight,let them know your plans for YOUR team "if you are the team leader" and if they dont like it,hit the bricks! Dishonest people get a certain punishment at our fields.. they refuse to call hit,they call in someone with an accurate bolt action to peg the side of the neck,lol.. not saying thats a great idea but thats what happens.. I find dishonest players, I aim ONLY for neck and knuckles! Maybe that makes me a crappy person, I dont much care.. At least I call my hits, I am a team player and I can follow instructions from my superiors on my team. I have been with the Hogs of War for Two years now,,almost three. I run my own squad and I have earned respect at any place I play at... Ask Livonia, he should still remember me,lol.. I would make up a guidline list tonight about what is best for the team, hold votes etc.. but remeber, the team leader is still leader! Give some leeway but also stand your ground, be the more mature one but also keep in mind buddy... This is mostly for fun! I let things get to me too much and stressed out way too much over unreliable members not showing up on gameday, not having bbs, forgetting to charge batteries etc.. Being team leader is tough sometimes and sometimes just not worth the headache I got from it.. Good luck buddy and if you need any more pointers and ideas I and most anyone here are willing to help..