If you barely ever use a sidear and normally go for the bang kills, then just go with the scope. I agree, get a 3-9 scope. you don't want it more than 40mm lens though, or people will see yor big black hole. Another word of advice, Mst people (including me) keep their scopes set to 4x, and only go to higher magnifications when dooing recon. When youre doing normal shooting yo want to be able to see a wide area so you don't miss anything but yo also want to be able to see up close to make accurate shots, and 4x zoom is a happy medium for most people.
Finish one thing before starting something new.
I can't remember a time where I only had one proect going on. I like to take a break from one project when I get tired and move onto another one, then keep switching to keep my mind fresh. Right now I'm building a new ghillie, building a belt sander, learning how to carve wood to make a rifle stock for my bar10, and I'm making pouches for my battle belt. Slightly off topic, but I couldn't resist.