Literally some of the worst advice I have read. The only time any kind of lube to even touch a bucking is on the outside of it to aid in assembly and disassembly. Past that never put lube in your bucking, it will ruin your ability to hop bbs and ruins accuracy.
Never use silicone based lube with silicone buckings or orings as the oil leaches out silicone from the bucking and orings and fucks them up.
The rest of it makes little to no sense. As the issue is not related to either of those mentioned.
As for a nub, I prefer the masada nubs myself, but the SS nub will do just fine.