Please go make an intro post. Also that isn't really a good way to start a question
Back on topic - To me, tactics are more important. You could have the most expensive gun and the best gear in the world, but it will not help you at all if you don't know what you are doing out in the field.
Good for you. Some people enjoy working on perfecting their gun and if they want to drop extra money into their gun, I say go for it. As for the rest of the post, you aren't talking about tactics, you are stating that you put a lot of money into your other gear and how you get upset that you feel people don't respect you because you don't have an upgraded gun.
Back on topic - To me, tactics are more important. You could have the most expensive gun and the best gear in the world, but it will not help you at all if you don't know what you are doing out in the field.